Many ask me, “How can I help my with others?” This is a common problem. Maybe your child brings a new or a favorite to the , but does not want to let another child . Sometimes, when a or a is nearby, your child is even more careful with their things. Sharing can be hard, especially when children love their or games.
很多家长问我：“我怎么才能让我的孩子学会和别人分享呢？” 这是一个很常见的问题。 也许你的孩子带了一个新球或者最喜欢的游戏到桌子上，但不愿意让别的孩子玩。 有时候，当有婴儿或者猫在旁边时，你的孩子会对自己的东西更加小心。 分享确实不容易，特别是当孩子们很喜欢自己的玩具或游戏时。
Here is one idea: make sharing part of the game. Put the ball, , and a small on a , and let each child take turns picking one. You can also play with , perhaps near the , and ask each child to help fill the bag or build something together. When children work together, they often forget about fighting over toys. You can even show how birds sometimes share food or space, so children see sharing can be fun and kind.
这里有一个办法：把分享变成游戏的一部分。 把球、笔和一个小袋子放在椅子上，让每个孩子轮流挑选一个。 你也可以带孩子们在门口外面玩沙子，让每个孩子一起帮忙装满袋子或者一起搭建东西。 当孩子们一起合作时，他们常常会忘记争抢玩具。 你甚至可以让孩子看看鸟儿有时候会分享食物或空间，让他们明白分享其实很有趣，也很友善。
Remember, learning to share takes time. With your help and a little practice, your child will become better at playing and sharing with others.
请记住，学会分享是需要时间的。 在你的帮助和一点练习下，你的孩子会越来越擅长和别人一起玩耍和分享。
